I Need Your Opinions -- Please Don't Hold Back

To my Subscribers, Twitter Followers, and Casual Readers alike, I need your opinions.

My full-time job and other hobbies do not permit me to write blog posts on a more frequent basis. To date, I have really only written about the products we (Mrs. Secure and I) either love or like. Some sex toys on this blog exceed expectations; others have met expectations.

That brings me to my main point. I have received numerous samples (and purchases) that are either worthless, cause pain, are not safe to use, or just don't work like they should. 

Rather than spend hours and hours drafting posts, creating videos, and publicly panning these products, my typical M.O. has been different than other Bloggers. Essentially, I write a point-based email critique of constructive criticism, and I send that critique directly to the company who sells that product (and their affiliate if I received it through that means).

My idea for doing this is simple:  I spend my limited time blogging only about products I can truly recommend to readers. That way, I don't waste my time writing about junk.

So, here is my proposal, and I'd like to know what you think. I want to create a page link on this blog that is just a simple list of products I do not recommend. That way, it's out there. At the same time, it offers the opportunity for individuals to ask me directly about the product and their concerns. 

Please comment below or send me a direct email with your suggestions. Also, don't hold back on other opinions you have about the site. I can take the criticism, as it helps everybody. My Wife is very good about pointing out my grammatical errors :-P

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  1. I find negative reviews just as useful as positive one's. If something is shit I want to know! It's better to find negative reviews on a product and not buy it rather than find nothing and waste money.

  2. i think it would be a good idea to make a list of products not to buy to help save time but maybe put a short summary/ a sentence why it bad under it for clarification.